Monday, January 17, 2005

Is This Another Omen ???

CLOSING CYCLES
By Paolo Coelho
One always has to know when a stage comes to an end.
If we insist on staying longer than the necessary
time, we lose the happiness and the meaning of the
other stages we have to go through. Closing cycles,
shutting doors, ending chapters - whatever name we
give it, what matters is to leave in the past the
moments of life that have finished.
Did you lose your job? Has a loving relationship come
to an end? Did you leave your parents' house? Gone to
live abroad? Has a long-lasting friendship ended all
of a sudden? You can spend a long time wondering why
this has happened. You can tell yourself you won't
take another step until you find out why certain
things that were so important and so solid in your
life have turned into dust, just like that. But such
an attitude will be awfully stressing for everyone
involved: your parents, your husband or wife, your
friends, your children, your sister, everyone will
be finishing chapters, turning over new leaves,
getting on with life, and they will all feel bad
seeing you at a standstill. None of us can be in the
present and the past at the same time, not even when
we try to understand the things that happen to us.
What has passed will not return: we cannot for ever be
children, late adolescents, sons that feel guilt or
rancor towards our parents, lovers who day and night
relive an affair with someone who has gone away and
has not the least intention of coming back. Things
pass, and the best we can do is to let them really go
away.That is why it is so important (however painful it maybe) to
destroy souvenirs, move, give lots of things
away to orphanages, sell or donate the books you have
at home. Everything in this visible world is a
manifestation of the invisible world, of what is going
on in our hearts and getting rid of certain memories
also means making some room for other memories to take
their place. Let things go. Release them. Detach
yourself from them. Nobody plays this life with marked
cards, so sometimes we win and sometimes we lose. Do
not expect anything in return, do not expect your
efforts to be appreciated, your genius to be
discovered, your love to be understood. Stop turning
on your emotional television to watch the same program
over and over again, the one that shows how much you
suffered from a certain loss: that is only poisoning
you, nothing else.Nothing is more dangerous than not accepting love
relationships that are broken off, work that is
promised but there is no starting date, decisions that
are always put off waiting for the "ideal moment."
Before a new chapter is begun, the old one has to be
finished: tell yourself that what has passed will
never come back. Remember that there was a time when
you could live without that thing or that person -nothing is irreplaceable, a habit is not a need. Thismay sound so obvious, it may even be difficult, but itis very important.

Sunday, January 16, 2005

This What Makes Me Strong As Of The Moment .....

Let it go for 2005..
By T. D. Jakes
There are people who can walk away from you.
And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk
away from you: let them walk.
I don't want you to try to talk another person into
staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to
see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone.
When people can walk away from you let them walk.
Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.
The bible said that, they came out from us
that it might be made manifest that they were not for
us. For had they been of us, no doubt they would have
continued with us. [1 John 2:19]
People leave you because they are not joined to you.
And if they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay.
Let them go.
And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person it just
means that their part in the story is over. And you've got
to know when people's part in your story is over so that you don't keep
trying to raise the dead.You've got to know when it's dead.
You've got to know when it's over. Let me tell you
something. I've got the gift of good-bye. It's the tenth spiritual gift, I
believe in good-bye. It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm
faithful, and I know whatever God means for me to have He'll give it to me.
And if it takes too much sweat I don't need it. Stop begging people to stay.
Let them go!!
If you are holding on to something that doesn't belongto you and was never intended for your life, then you need to......
LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to past hurts and pains ......
LET IT GO!!!
If someone can't treat you right, love you back, andsee your worth.....
LET IT GO!!!
If someone has angered you .......
LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge......
LET IT GO!!!
If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction......
LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or talents ......
LET IT GO!!!
If you have a bad attitude.......
LET IT GO!!!
If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better......
LET IT GO!!!
If you're stuck in the past and God is trying to take
you to a new level in Him......
LET IT GO!!!
If you are struggling with the healing of a brokenrelationship.......
LET IT GO!!!
If you keep trying to help someone who won't even tryto help themselves......
LET IT GO!!!
If you're feeling depressed and stressed .........
LET IT GO!!!
If there is a particular situation that you are soused to handling yourself
and God is saying "take your hands off of it,"
then you need to......
LET IT GO!!!
Let the past be the past. Forget the former things.GOD is doing a new thing for 2005!!!
LET IT GO!!!
Get Right or Get Left.. think about it, and then ....LET IT GO!!!

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It is hard to fall in love madly ....
I hope both of us will be ok the next time we meet

All About Myself

I want the whole world or atleast those people who know me to remember me. Workaholic? Dunno...maybe I just have goals. What else...Im confusing, moody, hopeless romantic, and snobbish ..... that's what they say ... not really!!...try to know me better! I dont mind other people's business as long as you dont mingle with mine! In other words, M.Y.O.F.B!I believe I am naturally bright, intellectual and talented. A keen observer. I love watching people. I am also a deep thinker who loves to ask questions and ponder the meaning of things. I HATE BEING RUSHED and I DO NOT LIKE TO BE HASSLED. Usually I like a lot of free time for myself (that's why sometimes I consider myself selfish). I can brighten one's day. I am sensitive to the feelings of people around me though sometimes I ignore it. I love to laugh. I love to sing."Some people live for the fortune; Some people live just for the fame; Some people live for the power; Some people live just to play the game".....as for me I still don't know yetI am not really good at telling people who I really am. I guess partly that's because I'm a natural introvert. I just developed my social skills when i was in college and I guess also with the nature of my job (Training -----> get to meet a lot of people). Usually the best way to know me is get to know my friends and they will tell you who I really am. Take time to read my testimonials. Personality test works for me too. Believe it or not, even Horoscopes is applicable to me. FICKLE MINDED. I don't know if it is with the level of my maturity or this is who I really am but trust me I am already working on this. I have a lot of interest that is why I have a lot of things in my mind. Right now I'm into computers but I also wanna try Advertising, Photography, Directing, Theater and a lot more. Ideas easily fly in my head. I have a tendency to get bored easily though I consider myself patient enough..isn't ironic? You may find me complicated but I am simple =)

My first day in blog

While sitting in the restroom, just thought of creating an account here. I just want to write things I learn everyday and I guess an outlet to share my feelings. =) Im not good in writing and I dont have enough time to spend in composing blog about myself but Ill try my best to keep this updated.